When You Stand at the Crossroads of a Choice of ‘It’s Easier’ and ‘Not easy’

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It is not easy to get into the depth of unpleasant situations and make an effort to resolve them. It’s much easier to let them go and leave the way it is. It is easier to relax and not do the work that needs to be done. It is easier to stay with what you know and what gives you security and not take the risk. It is easier to say “I will do this tomorrow.” It is so much easier to do the job carelessly without putting extra effort in it. It is easier to stay in your comfort zone. It is easier to miss the phone call and not to take your time or effort to develop relationships. It is easier to make the choice that is easier at the time, but what is the ultimate outcome of those kinds of choices? A fake relationship while pretending that everything is fine, poverty, missed opportunity, endless pain of regret, wasted time, misery, mediocrity, and loneliness.

It is not easy to be open, vulnerable and make an effort to build an honest relationship that lasts. It is not easy to choose to do the work when you want to just relax and have fun. It requires courage and it’s not easy to take the risk. It is not easy to be disciplined and get things done on time. It is not easy to put all effort in everything you do and make an extra step. It’s not easy and it might be scary to get out of your comfort zone in order to reach your desired outcome. It does take time and effort to develop and strengthen your friendships. It is not easy to make these kinds of choices, but where do they bring us?

Ultimately, they bring us strong, honest and loving relationships, successful results and economic well-being, promotions, achieved goals, opportunities that lead us to new and bigger opportunities, wisely managed time, and memorable experiences. Finally, your big dream will be fulfilled only by choices that are not easy to make.

What if standing at the crossroads of choices “I don’t feel like it” and “I am committed”, “easy” and “not easy,” “want to” and “don’t want to”, you will ask yourself, “The choice that I am going to make now – where is it going to bring me ultimately?”

Ask yourself how the choice will affect your future

Published by Inga Lizdenyte

Inga Lizdenyte is a keynote Speaker on Inspiration, Empowerment, and Christian faith. CertifiedLife Coach, and Author of the book "UNSTOPPABLE. It's a Choice". Inga’s mission is to inspire others, share the message of hope and faith, and empower individuals to persevere, overcome, and achieve. After losing both of her legs and the use of her left arm in a tragic car accident at the age of 22, Inga was able to transform her life from not being able to speak, move or do anything independently, to traveling three years later by herself from her home country Lithuania, EU to California, USA and successfully building a dynamic and fulfilling life in spite of all odds. Many people claimed that the car accident destroyed her life, but Inga’s story shows that you can turn destruction into victory, and live a fulfilling life no matter what happens. By offering her speaking and coaching services, Inga now aims to make a difference in people’s lives. Inga brings the message of hope and faith by sharing her personal testimony of the living God’s power to restore the broken and turn the impossible into possible. Along with the message about faith, Inga equips individuals through practical advice and coaching to be strong in any circumstances, break through obstacles, and achieve their goals. Apart from her native Lithuanian language, she speaks and writes fluently in Russian and English. Inga has conducted a number of public speaking engagements and interviews in both Lithuania and in the United States for television programs, radio, and publications for inspirational purposes, and looks forward to continuing to share her message of hope. To book Inga to speak or for coaching sessions, please visit http://www.BecomingUnstoppable.org

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